Content in Every Season: By Guest Blogger Malika Cox

Content in Every Season

1 Peter 5:6-7 (The Message)

So be content with who you are, and don’t put on airs. God’s strong hand is on you; he’ll promote you at the right time. Live carefree before God; he is most careful with you.

I recently received news about a younger friend who had become engaged. As a single woman who has been single for a long time, when I heard the news I had to choose whether I would be happy for the friend or feel sorry for myself. I had to decide quickly because emotions are rising at this point. It took about two seconds and then I began to rehearse a statement I have made for these moments.

  • I love my life
  • I am content with this season God has me in
  • I am lacking nothing in this season
  • I am grateful for the amazing people in my life
  • I love what I do for a living
  • I am one of the most blessed people I know

As soon as I began to meditate on these thoughts for just a few seconds, I was able to then go back to the news and be excited for my friend. So much of what we are unhappy about in life is just a simple lie that we have been told by the enemy of our souls, which is that, you are missing something.

That was the first lie in the Garden of Eden. The serpent told Eve, who was like God and lacking nothing, that she could be like God if she did something.

We are told this by society everyday. You are lacking because you are not married so lose weight, change your hair color, wear more suggestive clothing, get a gym membership, be more outgoing, be less outgoing, be more picky, be less picky. It is exhausting to try and do and be everything society is telling us to do or be to get something that we really haven’t contemplated whether we really need. We just think we do because we’re told we do.

I finally had to ask myself, am I unhappy? Am I really missing something? Is my life that awful? I looked around and began to be so grateful for what I saw. I had the best family in the world. I loved my friends. I enjoyed what I did for a career. I loved my role in church. I had the best dog ever and besides being completely taken care of in every possible material way, I had a great sense of peace and joy in my spiritual life.

God’s presence in my prayer time was above anything I could hope for and desire. I had everything I needed and at that moment I decided that I didn’t want to move to the next season of life until I was completely content in the one I had.

I still want to get married and have children but I’ve come to the revelation that those things won’t make me any more fulfilled than I am right now.

Paul said in Philippians 4:12 -13 (NIV) “I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.  I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

Jesus Christ alone brings contentment despite any and all outside circumstances. It is in Him that we are fulfilled and it is in Him that every emotional and relational need is met. When we rest in Him in every situation, life becomes more fulfilling. Peace from the inside reigns in our hearts and we become more content in every season of life.

Flourish & Shine!

Malika Cox

Content in Every SeasonMalika Cox spent her younger years battling addictions, self-destructive behavior and low self-esteem. She was involved in the underground music and goth scene in both New York City and New Orleans.

In December of 1996, while she was living in New Orleans, she opened the Bible for the first time in her life, and read Psalm 56:13, “For You have delivered my soul from death. Have You not kept my feet from falling, That I may walk before God, In the light of the living?.”

She knew for some reason after reading that Psalm that morning she had to leave New Orleans immediately and go to the airport to fly home to Oklahoma City. She did not go into work that day at the Louisiana Pizza Kitchen. As it turned out that day, December 2, 1996, three of her co-workers were killed on a shift she was suppose to work.

After she learned of what had happened she was devastated. Malika knew her life was in shambles and at that moment she asked Jesus Christ into her life to be her Lord and Savior. 

She ended up finding a wonderful church in Oklahoma City, Church of the Harvest, and enrolled in a two-year Bible College. After graduating, she devoted devoted her life to Christian ministry, service, and the study of God’s Word. 

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5 thoughts on “Content in Every Season: By Guest Blogger Malika Cox

  1. Wow. I have been married for 23 years and have 5 sons tend I can tell you that being content with what ever season you find yourself in is such a urge life lesson. The enemy of our soul is always right there to whisper a lie to get our eyes off the blessings. I am amazingly touched by this article. Thank you for sharing your heart!

  2. This is a great reminder from Malika. I often find myself in a race to get to the next “thing” i.e. job, house, etc. This is a good reminder to focus on all the things I’m grateful for. Thank you for sharing Malika’s post, Candra!

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